Adoption, Fertilization

and Basic Child Rearing for Men

Real guidance for real dads — from the first steps to fatherhood and beyond.

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Meet Me

Gary Harris

I’m Gary Harris, a husband, father, and storyteller who took a wild and winding road to fatherhood. From fertility treatments to international adoption, my journey into parenting was anything but ordinary. Along the way, I learned a lot, laughed even more, and discovered that love builds a family in all kinds of ways.
Today, I’m the proud dad of two incredible daughters. This book is my way of sharing our story, offering real talk for real dads, and helping others feel a little less alone on the path to parenthood.

About the Book

Adoption, Fertilization

and Basic Child Rearing for Men

Real guidance for real dads — from the first steps to fatherhood and beyond.

This book is a real-life, laugh-out-loud guide for men stepping into the world of fatherhood through fertility treatments and adoption. Gary Harris shares his own story with honesty and humor, covering everything from sperm samples to sleepless nights with a new baby. It’s part memoir, part manual, and all heart.
Whether you’re holding a baby or holding paperwork, this book gives you the truth, the tips, and the laughs you need to keep going. It’s real guidance for real dads.
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Why This Book?

01

It’s Honest and Real

No sugarcoating here. Gary shares the raw, awkward, and emotional parts of the journey so you know what to really expect.

03

It Covers What Others Don’t

Fertility struggles, international adoption, and being a hands-on dad aren’t always talked about. This book dives right in.

02

It’s Actually Funny

From fertility clinics to baby messes, this book finds the humor in chaos. You’ll laugh because you’ve been there or will be soon.

04

It Speaks to Men Directly

Written by a dad, for dads. It gives real advice without the fluff, from someone who’s lived every step of it.

Why This Book?

01

It’s Honest and Real

No sugarcoating here. Gary shares the raw, awkward, and emotional parts of the journey so you know what to really expect.

02

It’s Actually Funny

From fertility clinics to baby messes, this book finds the humor in chaos. You’ll laugh because you’ve been there or will be soon.

03

It Covers What Others Don’t

Fertility struggles, international adoption, and being a hands-on dad aren’t always talked about. This book dives right in.

04

It Speaks to Men Directly

Written by a dad, for dads. It gives real advice without the fluff, from someone who’s lived every step of it.

Reader Reviews

I never thought a book about fertility and adoption could be such an enjoyable read. Gary made me laugh out loud while also hitting some deep emotional notes. This book felt like a conversation with a friend who just gets it.

James Whitaker

Reader
Straight-up brilliant. Honest, helpful, hilarious.

Mark Lewis

Reader
Gary Harris tells the truth in a way that’s comforting, not overwhelming. His journey made me feel understood as a man going through similar struggles with my wife. We now quote parts of this book to each other.

David Chen

Reader
Every chapter felt like a step forward in my own journey. I didn’t know I needed this book until I read it.

Scott Harmon

Reader
The humor kept me hooked, but the insight is what stayed with me. This is not just a story. It’s a survival guide wrapped in love and laughs.

Adam Rivera

Reader
Finally, a book that speaks directly to men without talking down to us. This is rare.

Ben Holloway

Reader
Gary’s honesty about the sperm clinic experience was both hilarious and strangely reassuring.

Chris Nunez

Reader
This was the first time I read something that matched how I felt during our adoption process. I felt less alone, more understood, and better prepared to be a dad.

Jonathan Price

Reader
Gary gives a voice to every man quietly trying to navigate this world of parenting. He’s relatable and real.

Ryan Beltran

Reader
I didn’t expect to cry reading a chapter about baby wipes.

Patrick Owens

Reader
This book is real, raw, and really funny. It doesn’t hide the hard parts, but it also doesn’t make them feel impossible.

Sean Patel

Reader
Short, sharp, and so full of meaning. Just read it.

Kevin Tran

Reader
I read it cover to cover on a flight home from visiting our adoption agency. I laughed so hard the guy next to me asked what I was reading. I handed him the book. That says it all.

Nathan Goldberg

Reader
No fluff, no preaching just Gary’s true story, told with heart and guts. I respect that.

Anthony Dawson

Reader
Thank you, Gary. Your book helped me and my partner get through the darkest parts of our fertility struggle. You reminded us why we started this journey in the first place.

Jerome Ellis

Reader
Raw. Relatable. Required reading.

Kyle Foster

Reader

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